Why Twin Flames Run.... (and welcome!) Last updated 12/03/2013
Welcome to my website dedicated to all things twin flames and soul mate connections! I am Karen and I have nine years experience working with others to help them understand their intense soul connections. I hope you enjoy reading my site and I am confident that you will take away some answers you have been looking for on the subject.
I am a practicing psychic intuitive and feel I have encountered many experiences with intense soul connections in my own life and with the help of my spirit guides, I have created this website and my books to help other's on this wonderful and painful rollercoaster ride to spiritual awakening and transformation.
I have dedicated my time to exploring this phenomena in great depth and it is an intense passion in my life. Over the years I have read all the books and websites out there I could get hold of, BUT in doing so, and through my own experiences, my spirit guide's teachings and through thousands of readings and intuitive sessions with my cients I have learned to discern for myself what is "real" and what is "idealisation" and folly. There are so many books and websites that all say the same thing, containing dangerous theories and notions of "perfect relationships" and "not being whole without your twin flame" etc etc that send so many people down the wrong path that they miss out on life because they are waiting for an unrealistic fantasy to become reality.
YES, twin flames and soul mates are real, but I am offering a more realistic approach to them and not some unatainable fantasy that leave so many feeling powerless and disppointed for YEARS if not a whole lifetime! If you are looking for honesty and are tired of all the same theories that seem a bit too "out there" then I feel you would greatly benefit from reading my site. For a more in depth and personal solution, I offer my psychic readings that hone into your situation and give you guidance and answers. I do feel I offer a more realistic approach to help you better decide for yourself what this connection you are experiencing is really about and what you should (or shouldn't) do about it.
Whatever questions you have about your twin soul and your connection, I can help you with the aid of AstridPirellious my spirit guides. I have given thousands of readings over the years and many, many clients have reported back to me saying that my readings are the best they have ever had - accurate, honest and very in depth. I
take over an hour on each reading and it is not uncommon for me to write over 2,000 words. I take this work very seriously as I understand how it is so important to my clients to get the help and support they need through my
readings.
About Me
My twin soul journey started when I was 19 years old and seemingly out of no-where an intense soul connection entered my life and everything I once thought to be true about life was turned upside down in an instant. To say that it was a very distressing time for me is an understatement. I felt confused and very alone because no-one else around me seemed to understand what we were going through and like many in this situation, others thought we were deluding ourselves and being silly.
I couldn't understand why we “recognised” each other and felt such intense love almost instantaneously but at the same time such huge fear overshadowed us and there was such great resistance between us. I couldn't understand why it felt like the universe had brought us together and kept throwing us in each others paths even when we tried to run away from it. I was confused and didn't know if we were meant to end up together. I thought that if we kept being thrown back together by the universe, then we must have been meant for each other. Of course everyone around us thought that was a crazy notion.
I felt petrified when I loved him so much but didn’t actually like him as a person. I thought it was crazy because I didn't actually know him well in the physical – there was so much pushing each other away.
My spiritual awakening started happening – another thing that petrified me. I began to see deep down that some of the most real things in life were those that I couldn’t see with the naked eye. But I was too scared to believe in what I felt and knew to be true in my heart, so I carried on for years in great pain, convincing myself I was crazy and it was all in my head.
But I knew in my heart that what we felt for each other amongst all the chaos, pain and fighting was real. In fact it was the most real thing about my life. But I didn’t have a logical explanation for it, so I blamed it on “obsession” and “weakness”. For however much we tried to push each other away out of fear, we always came back together by this feeling of massive magnetism. It was like I physically couldn’t help but be pulled to him, even if my ego wanted to cut all ties. But, what I didn’t realise then is that this pain wasn't going to go away until I did my work on loving and healing myself.
I kept expecting him to come into my physical life and for him to fill in the inner voids that really this connection was showing me I needed to fill in myself. It was all a lesson in accepting oneself and others unconditionally. However, I realised that loving intense soul connections unconditionally does not mean letting them treat you in any way they like or putting yourself on the line to be hurt over and over again. I learned that unconditional love does not mean becoming a doormat or putting your life on hold, moulding yourself to try and be what you think the other person wants or what you think "God" wants for you to be "perfect" enough for "union" to occur. I learned that the union that is meant to happen is with SELF. To see the mirror of yourself in the other and see what needs working on within to make yourself happy and whole without waiting for another to fill in any voids.
Any voids I had within that I was expecting him to fill only kept reflecting back to me telling me to "do my work!" but not so I could "unite" with him (because that is to believe one cannot be whole in oneself) but to unite with myself, my soul self beyond the illusions of this earth, of my own ego.
Because he was a mirror (not the ONLY mirror, because we all have many) of my soul, I had to learn how to accept that mirror image I saw in him and come to love myself through those feelings of intense vulnerability. He also had to do the same. But obviously it's going to take a lifetime or more otherwise we would not be here on earth reincarnating! It’s an ongoing process, but once the difficulties of coming to accept oneself have been overcome, the Joining back together with SELF is amazing beyond what any human words could ever describe and you can finally let go of the expectations you may be having about this intense soul connection.
The common theory of twin souls is that one must prepare themselves for the union with the other half of soul. I do not believe this because I feel any soul connection we encounter is to help us come back to SELF - that is all we can control and trying to control another is not love. Trying to mould oneself to be what the other may want is not loving self and trying to be perfect is an illusion. It's about self-acceptance, self-love. We are here for our own lessons not to try and force another to learn or awaken because they will in their own time. Yes we may try and help if the help is wanted, but still, it comes down to the others free will.
Another theory I do not believe is that a twin soul is the most important soul connection, the be-all-end-all. I feel that holding onto this belief often holds many back from living their lives, doing their healing and learning their lessons. Also it can cut them off from other soul mates whom are just as important because all soul connections are about learning lessons.
I do believe that our own souls can incarnate into separate bodies, but again, if we meet that other body host, then the lesson is always going to be about self-love and acceptance, because that is the other part of our own soul. I feel that twin souls in terms of meeting one's own soul is never about trying to be with the PHYSICAL BODY of the part of one's own soul, because again, it's about learning the lessons that come along with that meeting, seeing the reflection of self.
Like so many others, we originally thought our connection was about romance, but that was because we hadn't awakened enough to see that it goes far beyond that and that in fact, trying to box this into the "romance" category was only blocking us further and reflecting our inner voids back to us so we kept going in circles. Also, I feel that soul love is not possessive (only human "love" (or insecurity) can be) therefore we are free to love other soul mates if that is our path, but in no way am I advocating cheating. I don't believe in "emotional infidelity" only physical infidelity because the soul is made of light energy, or love and love is never a bad thing if it is true...
My twin soul and I are together always in soul as I am with my other soulmates from my Soul Family as I feel a part of our souls always remains in the spirit world to help guide us on earth.
I feel we may decide to split our soul temporarily for certain lifetimes in order to speed up learning on the earth plane, but don't feel we always do this, or that in the spirit world we are separated from the other part of our soul - we may simply decided to incarnate into two bodies in a single lifetime possibly to meet self and learn to accept self, or to not meet and simply balance karma with other souls. But at the end of the day it is about loving and learning about self if it is a twin soul.
Through coming back to myself through self-love and acceptance (the qualities that arise through accepting intense soul connection) I also became aware that the spirit guides that I had always subconsciously prayed and talked to throughout my life called themselves AstridPirellious to me. They are a part of my and some intense soul connection's I have experienced Soul Family.
They were the ones who were trying to show me that I had to surrender to my life path and accept this soul connection (without holding onto expectations, fantasies or ideals) and myself rather than continuing to try and run away from myself and the lessons. I was runnning away from myself, so the parts I was runnnig away from kept coming back to "haunt" me until I *got* it. I spent many years trying to ignore my Guides and remain in my comfort zone of spiritual ignorance, but finally I couldn’t run away from it any longer. I decided to trust in this voice in my mind’s eye and they have never let me down (only I have when I have held onto a dellusion).
I began to feel free and accepting. I have never felt so much peace. The agony of longing to be one with him has disappeared because I am already accepting the parts of self that he was reflecting back to me. We (our physical selves) are now free to express our love through the deepest form (soul).
AstridPirellious (AP) have been our loving mentors, never judging but always helping us to remove the blocks in ourselves so we can come back to complete freedom. I talk with them everyday and they are always with me wherever I go. In a sense they are like dear friends who hear our problems and help us through them. They show us the way forward and I often channel messages from them and set them down on paper for future reference.
Since my awakening, I have spent a few years experimenting and discovering what my life purpose is. They have clearly told me that I am to share what I have learnt on this intense journey with anyone who is looking for advice and willing to listen, to help them overcome any illsuions and fantasies they may be holding onto that keep them in the dark. Sometimes the truth is harder to swallow when it threatens to dissolve our comfort zones and disappoint our fantasies of a happily ever after in the way we can picture it. But what if the Happy Ever After is even better than what we can imagine when we let go of the illsuions and embrace our truths? What if accepting the truth rather than holding onto the illusions and expectations is really what will set us free rather than holding onto being with this other person in a specific way?
I know some of you may call me pessimistic or think I can't understand what a twin soul is from what I am saying, but I strongly feel that holding onto the out-dated theories that keeps one stuck in an unhappy, limiting cycle is not soul truth. God/dess is not cruel and isn't punishing us by keeping us "separated" from love, but instead is trying to show us that firstly we need to achieve it from within and then we will never be the slave to another, what they do or don't do, if they show us love or not.
AP have lead me in the direction to creating this website in order to offer my advice and to try and help others find some understanding in their lives and connections of which may resonate with you or not - take what feels right to you. I have become very skilled in listening to my intuition and for many years have been a practising psychic, medium and channeller to AP’s messages and that of other spirits and guides.
My website is designed to provide you with channellings from AP about twin souls, soul mates and intense soul connections. I am also offering psychic readings for a small price about your soul connections or anything else you might want clarity about.
I hope you enjoy reading through my site and take away some new insights that will help you on your journey.
Blessings to you all
Karen x
So, why do many twin flames run from the connection...?
There are many reasons why twin flames and other soul mates run from the connection, from each other, from love. When they first meet their souls alight in the flames of Love. But then comes the troubles, the conflicts, the arguements, the hot/cold behaviour, the confusion, the feelings of "craziness"... the list goes on. But why does this happen? Why, when there is so much love, is there so much conflict and "running"?
Let me first explain that this is a SOUL connection and our souls are made from pure love. Think about it for a second, our souls ARE love, in it's purest form. Our souls are so eager to reconnect us with our twin flames and soul mates in the physical, you'd think it would be simple. But no, there are many lessons to learn, many tests to take before we can fully unite with our twin flames and soul mates. Please be aware that not all twin flames and soul mates are destined to be together in the physical though. Some just come into our lives to help us learn lessons for our own personal growth.
One of the main reasons why many twin souls and soul mates run from the connection is because of ego and all the preconceptions we have about the way we think and are taught love "should be". But this is soul love and therefore it doesn't fit into the earthly creations of romantic relationships - it goes far beyond that, therefore it is impossible to try and limit the love by forcing it into a purely romantic setting. Sometimes the souls love each other unconditionally but the human aspects get in the way of unconditional love. The soul loves unconditionally and until we enter more into our soul-consciousness, our human characters may well keep repelling us if we let ego take a hold too much. But again, I stress, sometimes we aren't supposed to have a harmonious connection even with our twin souls. Twin souls cans sometimes just be purely about learning tough lessons too. They are a part of us incarnated into another body at the same time, therefore the lessons will always be about self and accepting self, not romantic love.
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Twin flames and often soul mates are reflections of each other, of Self, so they show us everything about ourselves that we are not loving, accepting and what needs healing. When these inner blocks still remain, they will continue to be reflected between the twins and yet again it will repell them to go their separate ways again until we look inwards and heal inwards individually. Sometimes we are meant to go our separate ways though if that's what our path has in store for us... often so we can meet more suitable and compatible soul mates on the human level. Often twinsouls and soulmates run because there are parts of themselves they are not loving or accepting and they can't handle seeing these things illuminated through the connection. They don't feel good enough and are afraid that if they get close, the other twinsoul / soulmate will see these parts of themselves they are trying to deny and reject them. This rejection, they believe, would crush them and "prove" to them the very things they detest about themselves to be correct. They run from their own fears about themselves.
Often this is subconscious though, and the twinsouls and soul mates point their fingers at each other and blame the other for the breakdown of a physical relationship. But this has all been pre-determined by both twin flames / soul mates along with their Spirit Guides and Soul Family before they incarnate, to help them learn and grow the most. The physical separation forces the twin flames / soulmates to eventually look deeper within and awaken more to their soul-consciousness and realise that it is about healing the self.
Sometimes it takes time for twin flames and soul mates to trust in the love. It came about immediately and so intensely that often it goes beyond logic which we are taught to trust in rather than emotion and intuition. Many twinsouls / soul mates feel the transformatin happening within them, as they awaken more and more to their soul-consciousness, but try to fight it because they are afraid of the unknown. They are happy at how, in the past, they had made sense of the world - it fits into most other people's views too. They wonder how they could survive if they suddenly allowed themselves to trust in intuition and soul and spirituality. Won't people think they are mad? Won't they lose friends and even family? What if they are married, won't their husbands/wives think them mad or bad? They feel so alone, so confused and think they are mad. So they run, to save themselves the trouble and fear of losing their grip of reality.
But as they run from the connection, the mirror image of themselves, they begin to lose themselves, close their heart, become numb, depressed, lost. But on the surface they try to make out everything is fine, they are desperate to make everything fine and "normal" again because they fear they are weak to believe in this, especially when they think the twin flame / soulmate has hurt them so much. They cannot yet see that it is their own inner hurt, their own inner rejection that has caused so much pain. But their inner numbness becomes very frightening, their depression very real. People can see they are changing but they cannot tell them why - no-one would understand.
So they begin to feel more and more alone and they are pushed deeper into themselves, into their painful emotions. But eventually the fear of losing themselves will become bigger than the fear of facing upto their inner issues. Sometimes twin flames and soul mates need to feel the deepest depths of despair before they accept there is another way into love, into freedom, into happiness. But the Path leading to that can be very rocky and will be for a reason, to help them trust in themselves more and come back to Self-Love to be reflected back between the twin soul / soulmates so Reunion can occur either with that person or with themselves (or both).
My new ebook "Twin Souls and Soul Mates Fear of Love" is an extensive guide to why many Twin Souls and Soul Mates run from the connection and from such intense love. Also, many people have said that through reading the book they have noticed subconscious patterns within themselves that have unconsciouslu sabotaged their attempts to connect harmoniously with their soul connections.
To find out much more about all the complexities and ways to harmonise this connection you may be interested in my ebooks which go into great detail. They are packed full of wisdom from my guides, personal experience and everything I have learned through working with thousands of clients over the years. Just click on the links to go to the item descriptions page to find out more...
I am a practicing psychic intuitive and feel I have encountered many experiences with intense soul connections in my own life and with the help of my spirit guides, I have created this website and my books to help other's on this wonderful and painful rollercoaster ride to spiritual awakening and transformation.
I have dedicated my time to exploring this phenomena in great depth and it is an intense passion in my life. Over the years I have read all the books and websites out there I could get hold of, BUT in doing so, and through my own experiences, my spirit guide's teachings and through thousands of readings and intuitive sessions with my cients I have learned to discern for myself what is "real" and what is "idealisation" and folly. There are so many books and websites that all say the same thing, containing dangerous theories and notions of "perfect relationships" and "not being whole without your twin flame" etc etc that send so many people down the wrong path that they miss out on life because they are waiting for an unrealistic fantasy to become reality.
YES, twin flames and soul mates are real, but I am offering a more realistic approach to them and not some unatainable fantasy that leave so many feeling powerless and disppointed for YEARS if not a whole lifetime! If you are looking for honesty and are tired of all the same theories that seem a bit too "out there" then I feel you would greatly benefit from reading my site. For a more in depth and personal solution, I offer my psychic readings that hone into your situation and give you guidance and answers. I do feel I offer a more realistic approach to help you better decide for yourself what this connection you are experiencing is really about and what you should (or shouldn't) do about it.
Whatever questions you have about your twin soul and your connection, I can help you with the aid of AstridPirellious my spirit guides. I have given thousands of readings over the years and many, many clients have reported back to me saying that my readings are the best they have ever had - accurate, honest and very in depth. I
take over an hour on each reading and it is not uncommon for me to write over 2,000 words. I take this work very seriously as I understand how it is so important to my clients to get the help and support they need through my
readings.
About Me
My twin soul journey started when I was 19 years old and seemingly out of no-where an intense soul connection entered my life and everything I once thought to be true about life was turned upside down in an instant. To say that it was a very distressing time for me is an understatement. I felt confused and very alone because no-one else around me seemed to understand what we were going through and like many in this situation, others thought we were deluding ourselves and being silly.
I couldn't understand why we “recognised” each other and felt such intense love almost instantaneously but at the same time such huge fear overshadowed us and there was such great resistance between us. I couldn't understand why it felt like the universe had brought us together and kept throwing us in each others paths even when we tried to run away from it. I was confused and didn't know if we were meant to end up together. I thought that if we kept being thrown back together by the universe, then we must have been meant for each other. Of course everyone around us thought that was a crazy notion.
I felt petrified when I loved him so much but didn’t actually like him as a person. I thought it was crazy because I didn't actually know him well in the physical – there was so much pushing each other away.
My spiritual awakening started happening – another thing that petrified me. I began to see deep down that some of the most real things in life were those that I couldn’t see with the naked eye. But I was too scared to believe in what I felt and knew to be true in my heart, so I carried on for years in great pain, convincing myself I was crazy and it was all in my head.
But I knew in my heart that what we felt for each other amongst all the chaos, pain and fighting was real. In fact it was the most real thing about my life. But I didn’t have a logical explanation for it, so I blamed it on “obsession” and “weakness”. For however much we tried to push each other away out of fear, we always came back together by this feeling of massive magnetism. It was like I physically couldn’t help but be pulled to him, even if my ego wanted to cut all ties. But, what I didn’t realise then is that this pain wasn't going to go away until I did my work on loving and healing myself.
I kept expecting him to come into my physical life and for him to fill in the inner voids that really this connection was showing me I needed to fill in myself. It was all a lesson in accepting oneself and others unconditionally. However, I realised that loving intense soul connections unconditionally does not mean letting them treat you in any way they like or putting yourself on the line to be hurt over and over again. I learned that unconditional love does not mean becoming a doormat or putting your life on hold, moulding yourself to try and be what you think the other person wants or what you think "God" wants for you to be "perfect" enough for "union" to occur. I learned that the union that is meant to happen is with SELF. To see the mirror of yourself in the other and see what needs working on within to make yourself happy and whole without waiting for another to fill in any voids.
Any voids I had within that I was expecting him to fill only kept reflecting back to me telling me to "do my work!" but not so I could "unite" with him (because that is to believe one cannot be whole in oneself) but to unite with myself, my soul self beyond the illusions of this earth, of my own ego.
Because he was a mirror (not the ONLY mirror, because we all have many) of my soul, I had to learn how to accept that mirror image I saw in him and come to love myself through those feelings of intense vulnerability. He also had to do the same. But obviously it's going to take a lifetime or more otherwise we would not be here on earth reincarnating! It’s an ongoing process, but once the difficulties of coming to accept oneself have been overcome, the Joining back together with SELF is amazing beyond what any human words could ever describe and you can finally let go of the expectations you may be having about this intense soul connection.
The common theory of twin souls is that one must prepare themselves for the union with the other half of soul. I do not believe this because I feel any soul connection we encounter is to help us come back to SELF - that is all we can control and trying to control another is not love. Trying to mould oneself to be what the other may want is not loving self and trying to be perfect is an illusion. It's about self-acceptance, self-love. We are here for our own lessons not to try and force another to learn or awaken because they will in their own time. Yes we may try and help if the help is wanted, but still, it comes down to the others free will.
Another theory I do not believe is that a twin soul is the most important soul connection, the be-all-end-all. I feel that holding onto this belief often holds many back from living their lives, doing their healing and learning their lessons. Also it can cut them off from other soul mates whom are just as important because all soul connections are about learning lessons.
I do believe that our own souls can incarnate into separate bodies, but again, if we meet that other body host, then the lesson is always going to be about self-love and acceptance, because that is the other part of our own soul. I feel that twin souls in terms of meeting one's own soul is never about trying to be with the PHYSICAL BODY of the part of one's own soul, because again, it's about learning the lessons that come along with that meeting, seeing the reflection of self.
Like so many others, we originally thought our connection was about romance, but that was because we hadn't awakened enough to see that it goes far beyond that and that in fact, trying to box this into the "romance" category was only blocking us further and reflecting our inner voids back to us so we kept going in circles. Also, I feel that soul love is not possessive (only human "love" (or insecurity) can be) therefore we are free to love other soul mates if that is our path, but in no way am I advocating cheating. I don't believe in "emotional infidelity" only physical infidelity because the soul is made of light energy, or love and love is never a bad thing if it is true...
My twin soul and I are together always in soul as I am with my other soulmates from my Soul Family as I feel a part of our souls always remains in the spirit world to help guide us on earth.
I feel we may decide to split our soul temporarily for certain lifetimes in order to speed up learning on the earth plane, but don't feel we always do this, or that in the spirit world we are separated from the other part of our soul - we may simply decided to incarnate into two bodies in a single lifetime possibly to meet self and learn to accept self, or to not meet and simply balance karma with other souls. But at the end of the day it is about loving and learning about self if it is a twin soul.
Through coming back to myself through self-love and acceptance (the qualities that arise through accepting intense soul connection) I also became aware that the spirit guides that I had always subconsciously prayed and talked to throughout my life called themselves AstridPirellious to me. They are a part of my and some intense soul connection's I have experienced Soul Family.
They were the ones who were trying to show me that I had to surrender to my life path and accept this soul connection (without holding onto expectations, fantasies or ideals) and myself rather than continuing to try and run away from myself and the lessons. I was runnning away from myself, so the parts I was runnnig away from kept coming back to "haunt" me until I *got* it. I spent many years trying to ignore my Guides and remain in my comfort zone of spiritual ignorance, but finally I couldn’t run away from it any longer. I decided to trust in this voice in my mind’s eye and they have never let me down (only I have when I have held onto a dellusion).
I began to feel free and accepting. I have never felt so much peace. The agony of longing to be one with him has disappeared because I am already accepting the parts of self that he was reflecting back to me. We (our physical selves) are now free to express our love through the deepest form (soul).
AstridPirellious (AP) have been our loving mentors, never judging but always helping us to remove the blocks in ourselves so we can come back to complete freedom. I talk with them everyday and they are always with me wherever I go. In a sense they are like dear friends who hear our problems and help us through them. They show us the way forward and I often channel messages from them and set them down on paper for future reference.
Since my awakening, I have spent a few years experimenting and discovering what my life purpose is. They have clearly told me that I am to share what I have learnt on this intense journey with anyone who is looking for advice and willing to listen, to help them overcome any illsuions and fantasies they may be holding onto that keep them in the dark. Sometimes the truth is harder to swallow when it threatens to dissolve our comfort zones and disappoint our fantasies of a happily ever after in the way we can picture it. But what if the Happy Ever After is even better than what we can imagine when we let go of the illsuions and embrace our truths? What if accepting the truth rather than holding onto the illusions and expectations is really what will set us free rather than holding onto being with this other person in a specific way?
I know some of you may call me pessimistic or think I can't understand what a twin soul is from what I am saying, but I strongly feel that holding onto the out-dated theories that keeps one stuck in an unhappy, limiting cycle is not soul truth. God/dess is not cruel and isn't punishing us by keeping us "separated" from love, but instead is trying to show us that firstly we need to achieve it from within and then we will never be the slave to another, what they do or don't do, if they show us love or not.
AP have lead me in the direction to creating this website in order to offer my advice and to try and help others find some understanding in their lives and connections of which may resonate with you or not - take what feels right to you. I have become very skilled in listening to my intuition and for many years have been a practising psychic, medium and channeller to AP’s messages and that of other spirits and guides.
My website is designed to provide you with channellings from AP about twin souls, soul mates and intense soul connections. I am also offering psychic readings for a small price about your soul connections or anything else you might want clarity about.
I hope you enjoy reading through my site and take away some new insights that will help you on your journey.
Blessings to you all
Karen x
So, why do many twin flames run from the connection...?
There are many reasons why twin flames and other soul mates run from the connection, from each other, from love. When they first meet their souls alight in the flames of Love. But then comes the troubles, the conflicts, the arguements, the hot/cold behaviour, the confusion, the feelings of "craziness"... the list goes on. But why does this happen? Why, when there is so much love, is there so much conflict and "running"?
Let me first explain that this is a SOUL connection and our souls are made from pure love. Think about it for a second, our souls ARE love, in it's purest form. Our souls are so eager to reconnect us with our twin flames and soul mates in the physical, you'd think it would be simple. But no, there are many lessons to learn, many tests to take before we can fully unite with our twin flames and soul mates. Please be aware that not all twin flames and soul mates are destined to be together in the physical though. Some just come into our lives to help us learn lessons for our own personal growth.
One of the main reasons why many twin souls and soul mates run from the connection is because of ego and all the preconceptions we have about the way we think and are taught love "should be". But this is soul love and therefore it doesn't fit into the earthly creations of romantic relationships - it goes far beyond that, therefore it is impossible to try and limit the love by forcing it into a purely romantic setting. Sometimes the souls love each other unconditionally but the human aspects get in the way of unconditional love. The soul loves unconditionally and until we enter more into our soul-consciousness, our human characters may well keep repelling us if we let ego take a hold too much. But again, I stress, sometimes we aren't supposed to have a harmonious connection even with our twin souls. Twin souls cans sometimes just be purely about learning tough lessons too. They are a part of us incarnated into another body at the same time, therefore the lessons will always be about self and accepting self, not romantic love.
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Twin flames and often soul mates are reflections of each other, of Self, so they show us everything about ourselves that we are not loving, accepting and what needs healing. When these inner blocks still remain, they will continue to be reflected between the twins and yet again it will repell them to go their separate ways again until we look inwards and heal inwards individually. Sometimes we are meant to go our separate ways though if that's what our path has in store for us... often so we can meet more suitable and compatible soul mates on the human level. Often twinsouls and soulmates run because there are parts of themselves they are not loving or accepting and they can't handle seeing these things illuminated through the connection. They don't feel good enough and are afraid that if they get close, the other twinsoul / soulmate will see these parts of themselves they are trying to deny and reject them. This rejection, they believe, would crush them and "prove" to them the very things they detest about themselves to be correct. They run from their own fears about themselves.
Often this is subconscious though, and the twinsouls and soul mates point their fingers at each other and blame the other for the breakdown of a physical relationship. But this has all been pre-determined by both twin flames / soul mates along with their Spirit Guides and Soul Family before they incarnate, to help them learn and grow the most. The physical separation forces the twin flames / soulmates to eventually look deeper within and awaken more to their soul-consciousness and realise that it is about healing the self.
Sometimes it takes time for twin flames and soul mates to trust in the love. It came about immediately and so intensely that often it goes beyond logic which we are taught to trust in rather than emotion and intuition. Many twinsouls / soul mates feel the transformatin happening within them, as they awaken more and more to their soul-consciousness, but try to fight it because they are afraid of the unknown. They are happy at how, in the past, they had made sense of the world - it fits into most other people's views too. They wonder how they could survive if they suddenly allowed themselves to trust in intuition and soul and spirituality. Won't people think they are mad? Won't they lose friends and even family? What if they are married, won't their husbands/wives think them mad or bad? They feel so alone, so confused and think they are mad. So they run, to save themselves the trouble and fear of losing their grip of reality.
But as they run from the connection, the mirror image of themselves, they begin to lose themselves, close their heart, become numb, depressed, lost. But on the surface they try to make out everything is fine, they are desperate to make everything fine and "normal" again because they fear they are weak to believe in this, especially when they think the twin flame / soulmate has hurt them so much. They cannot yet see that it is their own inner hurt, their own inner rejection that has caused so much pain. But their inner numbness becomes very frightening, their depression very real. People can see they are changing but they cannot tell them why - no-one would understand.
So they begin to feel more and more alone and they are pushed deeper into themselves, into their painful emotions. But eventually the fear of losing themselves will become bigger than the fear of facing upto their inner issues. Sometimes twin flames and soul mates need to feel the deepest depths of despair before they accept there is another way into love, into freedom, into happiness. But the Path leading to that can be very rocky and will be for a reason, to help them trust in themselves more and come back to Self-Love to be reflected back between the twin soul / soulmates so Reunion can occur either with that person or with themselves (or both).
My new ebook "Twin Souls and Soul Mates Fear of Love" is an extensive guide to why many Twin Souls and Soul Mates run from the connection and from such intense love. Also, many people have said that through reading the book they have noticed subconscious patterns within themselves that have unconsciouslu sabotaged their attempts to connect harmoniously with their soul connections.
To find out much more about all the complexities and ways to harmonise this connection you may be interested in my ebooks which go into great detail. They are packed full of wisdom from my guides, personal experience and everything I have learned through working with thousands of clients over the years. Just click on the links to go to the item descriptions page to find out more...
 The Twin Soul Survival Guide: Working Towards Reunion Ebook |
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